Working together early, with care and compassion, can make a meaningful difference for your loved one and for each other.
Building a shared understanding of dementia
Dementia affects far more than memory. It can influence behaviour, routines, communication and emotional responses. When siblings take time to develop a shared understanding of the condition, conversations and decisions tend to feel calmer and more joined up.
Using trusted guidance can help families understand what to expect and how needs may change over time. This shared knowledge can reduce misunderstandings, ease tension and help siblings support one another more effectively.
Talking early and sharing responsibilities
Open and honest conversations at an early stage can help prevent pressure building up later on. It can be helpful to talk about what your mum or dad needs now, how support may change over time and what each sibling is realistically able to offer.
Responsibilities do not need to be equal to be fair. One person may take on organising appointments, another may provide regular companionship, while someone else manages paperwork or coordinates support.
What matters most is clarity, communication and mutual respect.
Keeping your parent at the heart of decisions
Bringing conversations back to your loved one can help everyone stay focused. Thinking about routines, familiarity and what helps them feel comfortable at home often guides decisions in a positive direction.
For many families in Woodford Green and the surrounding area, remaining at home with the right dementia-aware homecare can offer reassurance, dignity and continuity.
Familiar surroundings and consistent care professionals can make a real difference to daily wellbeing.
When local homecare support can help
There is often a point where bringing in professional support can ease pressure for the whole family. Local homecare services can provide routine, consistency and specialist dementia support, while allowing siblings to focus on their relationship with their loved one rather than the practicalities alone.
At GoodOaks, we support families across Woodford Green, South Woodford and Buckhurst Hill, helping them navigate dementia care with sensitivity and understanding. Our approach is rooted in partnership, supporting families to work together and make informed decisions.
If your family would like to talk about dementia-aware homecare or explore local support options, we are always happy to have a conversation.
You do not have to face this journey alone.
We are here to listen. You can get in touch with our Woodford Green team here.
Free Dementia resources
We also offer a free downloadable Dementia Guide for family carers, designed to provide practical advice, reassurance and clear next steps when supporting a loved one living with dementia.
It includes helpful information on recognising changes, planning for the future and feeling confident in your caring role.
You can download your free copy here.